Compared to a few decades ago, disappearing is a lot harder today. But there are some ways to keep a profile so low, it'll be difficult to trace you. (h/t to BackdoorSurvival.com)
Before "disappearing without a trace," make sure to settle all your debts or contracts to avoid legal issues. You don't want that kind of problem looming over you when you begin a new life elsewhere.
1. Stop using social media gradually
Some people lead whole lives online. Depending on how active you are on social media, you may need to slowly stop using it. If you suddenly became inactive, people may worry or get suspicious.
If you're an avid user of social media platforms, limit the amount of things you share or post gradually over time. In this way, people won't notice if you disappear.
2. Make use of your digital footprint
Almost everyone nowadays leaves a digital footprint. This includes using credit or debit cards, using discount cards at stores or simply connecting to the Internet.
Use this to your advantage by throwing potential investigators off your scent. Search about faraway places abroad or other items that can mislead them into thinking you're going somewhere far.
3. Blend in with the crowd
Be the gray man. This means wearing nondescript clothes and not standing out. Avoid showing anything that makes you recognizable, like a bright hair color, tattoos or piercings.
This also includes your behavior and language. Try to copy much of the way of speaking and manners of people around you to blend in.
4. Avoid public spaces and events
In general, it's best to keep away from prying eyes. Even if you blend in with the crowd, you'll still need to interact with servers or cashiers. This is especially the case in public events. You never know if there might be someone in your past life who could still recognize you.
5. Beware of cameras
Today, cameras are everywhere. They're in public transportation vehicles, stores and even streets. Avoid detection by changing your look each time you go out. Try to cover your face as well with face masks, glasses or a cap. Knowing how to use makeup can be a big advantage here.
6. Withdraw your money from the bank in small amounts over time
Once you disappear, you need to live by cash only. Using cards would leave a digital footprint. Withdraw your money from the bank slowly over time. Closing an account or suddenly withdrawing a large amount may pique the bankers' interests and question you.
7. Avoid owning a vehicle that needs a license, permit or insurance
Most vehicles require IDs for permits and insurance before you can use them. When you disappear, it might be best to ditch your car. They're too easily recognizable and rather difficult to hide.
Moreover, a lot of these vehicles have trackers installed in them. Use public transportation or a bicycle instead.
8. Beware of communication
Cellphones are easily traceable. Use a cheap burner phone if you need to contact somebody from your old life. Change it once in a while to make it harder to track you.
Payphones are also another option. However, make sure to not use those near where you're staying or constantly use the same phone. This may raise signals for people who might be following you.
9. Slowly get rid of the pictures
As difficult as it sounds, you may need to slowly start getting rid of your pictures. It is difficult online, but take charge of those uploaded in your social media accounts. People in your new life may link you to old pictures online, making it harder to go off grid.
Consequently, avoid having your pictures taken. You don't want a snooping friend or relative noticing you in the background of another person's online photo.
10. Save up money and secure passports to live abroad
If you can afford it, go abroad. It'll be a lot more difficult to find someone you know in another country compared to staying in the US. Learn how to secure a visa, a worker's permit or an exchange program. If you decide that you want to start a new life there, apply for citizenship.
Disappearing is a difficult thing to do, not only physically, but also emotionally. You'll be leaving a lot of people and items that may be dear to you. Once you begin your new life, it'll be difficult to go back to your old one. Before disappearing, make sure that it is what you truly want.
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