In fact, preppers themselves may have family and friends who don't understand why it's important to stay prepared and stock up on survival gear and supplies.
If you've ever tried to convince your loved ones to start prepping, you might have received responses that ranged from incredulous to the dismissive. This can be frustrating, especially if you're talking to them from a place of concern.
Don't let this stop you from trying again, especially if you really want to convince your family and friends to start prepping before SHTF. (h/t to TheOrganicPrepper.com)
Try to understand why they think nothing wrong can ever happen. Sometimes, people who think prepping is a waste of time can be suffering from "cognitive dissonance," a psychological phenomenon.
"Cognitive dissonance" was coined by Dr. Leon Festinger and the phrase was first used in his book, titled "When Prophecy Fails." The book discussed the phenomenon, wherein "when two diverse values collide – the reality of a situation and the moral belief system of the person, it causes mental discomfort that for some people is quite extreme." Dr. Festinger explained that an individual with cognitive dissonance must change one of these values to so they can restore their "mental equilibrium."
The theory states that "dissonance reduction" can be achieved in one of three methods:
He added that the bias can usually explain irrational or destructive behavior.
People with cognitive dissonance may take some convincing before they realize that prepping is crucial to their survival if and when SHTF. Try to do this in "manageable bites" so your loved ones aren't overwhelmed. (Related: Should you tell people you’re a prepper? Experts say keep your cards close to your chest.)
When convincing your family and friends to start prepping, don't go all "hardcore survivalist" mode on them. Here are some tips to get you started:
You can't force someone to start prepping, especially since you need to understand why you prep to be an efficient survivalist. If your family or friends can't see the need for prepping, accept their decision and move on.
Preppers know that sometimes, you will have to make a difficult decision. It's up to you if you want to pick up the slack for your stubborn family members or if you're going to turn them away if they come running to you when SHTF.
Remember, when SHTF, your chances of survival are higher if you're with people who know that prepping is not a silly hobby but a self-reliant way of life.
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